I don’t get BDSM. There’s no kissing, touching or sex, all that a man gets is to kiss and lick the woman’s feet. I don’t see what’s in it for the man. So where’s the pleasure for the man?

I don’t get BDSM. There’s no kissing, touching or sex, all that a man gets is to kiss and lick the woman’s feet. I don’t see what’s in it for the man. So where’s the pleasure for the man?

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One thought on “I don’t get BDSM. There’s no kissing, touching or sex, all that a man gets is to kiss and lick the woman’s feet. I don’t see what’s in it for the man. So where’s the pleasure for the man?

  1. Patently false. Each letter of the acronym represents one aspect. Some are into all, some only one or two.
    Bondage – One person ties the other up I to various forms and they fuck.
    Domina – One is explicitly in charge, within a set of pre-ordained guidelines and orders the other to behave accordingly. The submissive performs as told and they fuck.
    Sadism – A person who is aroused by harming (within reason) another. Arousal leads to fucking.
    Masochism – A person who is aroused by pain. Said arousal enhances the fucking experience.
    Any and all of these can and often are combined.

    Foot worship is a fetish. Many fetishes exist that do not fall under the bdsm umbrella but are welcomed. Fucking while wearing a Scooby Doo costume is not bdsm. Kink is not always bdsm. Swallowing semen is not bdsm. It involves sex. That’s the commonality.

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