Toys

Toys

I am, as you may already have gathered, in Paris this weekend. Now I have visited Paris many times, and have often heard commented that it would a simply delightful city if it weren’t for the Parisians. Funnily enough, I like the Parisians, they remind me of the New Yorkers. Brash, in your face, and Oh soo French.

I spent the afternoon around the Montmartre area visiting Sacre Coeur, and walking up the 300 stairs to the dome, which provided some fantastic views of the city. This enabled me to try out one of my new birthday presents, a 70-300mm lens! Bloody hell, that thing is impressive.

Saw a lovely old couple making a killing and supplementing their pension with a seriously out of tuned violin and accordion; everyone young and old happily throwing money into the hat.

Found a lovely little home decor store that had the most lovely lamp shades and decided to have a look, well what did I discover? 100g and 150g lead weights, oh now I became quite excited by these, endless possibilities and all. So in my franglais, and her French, we came to a slight discussion. She was quite surprised to discover someone so excited about lead weights; because she used them in her work. She weights down the fittings for the large lamp shades she makes. I smiled, I didn’t have the heart to tell her I would be using them in my work as well, and I would be weighting down fittings, balls, penises and nipples.

I love slaves.

I love slaves.

I absolutely love my slaves, but there is one in particular that is a long time favorite, and for some reason he started to act up, he made an appointment and didn’t show! I didn’t say anything, I just waited. He attempted to make another appointment with me, and I ignored him, why he wasn’t desperate enough. He tried again, again I ignored him. 4 months later he is on the phone, crying and begging. I make him wait another month. He is beyond desperation now. So finally yesterday I decided it was time to see him. I did everything I wanted to him aside from tattoo my name on his ass. That will be the next session. 🙂

Another Satisfied Customer

Another Satisfied Customer

To say I like Dom is a wee bit of an understatement, I just love the idea of coming up with creative ways to push someones limits, it just appeals to my inner sociopath, it make me feel all warm and cuddly. I will lay in bed at night and devise wickedly delightful things to do to my subs. I was once told by one young man, I was inspired.

I was in Kilkenny getting more and more frustrated by the minute, because the phone was NOT ringing, I mean it was so quiet, I called myself a couple of time to check it was working, yup it was fine, but I wasn’t. I was loosing the will to live as a good friend of mine would say. I packed my bags and headed to Dublin, well we all know how inundated Dublin is with pussy for sale, so I figured my chance of doing much of anything was at best slim, and worst none. So, checked into my apartment, and waited, the phone started to ring, SHOCK. OMG, I had clients calling me! WOW!

Well, to make a long story short, I had one particular gentlemen call who surprisingly enough made my day. He wanted corporal punishment, ok fair enough, I have 2 riding crops, 1 cane , 2 flogs-one large, one small, 1 paddle, and a horse hair whisk. No problem I said. Well, he asked if he could bring his own cane. Ok, impressive! I like a man who knows what he wants to be beaten with, that way we both know the experience will be a fulfilling one.

Well, here are the results of that encounter. He happily skipped home, and called the next day for another session, unfortunately I had already left town.

A Note to Those New to DOM.

A Note to Those New to DOM.

There seems to be quite an interest in Dom, and all things fetish as of late. I do see an increase response, and I am getting more requests for a mild Dom session, or a Tie & Tease. And I can only say, bring on the slaves and subs. Smack! But there is also a troubling trend that I am also noticing, one which concerns me. Those neophytes coming in and asking to be dominated, without having a clue of what that term truly means. This is scary. They know the terminology, catch phrases, and sentence structure, and based on this I will determine their experience and the course of treatment and action according to the exhibited experience level. What, I am finding a bit disconcerting is even after the initial introduction and discussion, at about 30 mins into the session you have a sub laying on the floor winching, and screaming for you to stop, because this isn’t what they had had in mind! WTF! Now I know I am not stupid nor am I deaf. So, I do have to ask the question, what part of-“I want you to dominate me, humiliate me, use me as your bitch, fuck me up the ass. Also you can do to me what ever your like, you can smack me, bite me and torture my balls and cock .” Did I misunderstand? GENTLEMEN, YOU DON’T WALK IN TO A DOMINATRIX AND TELL HER TO ‘DO TO ME WHAT YOUR WANT!” You may find yourself in a bit over your head, literally, with her male slave, Tiny, shoving his 10″ rather firm cock up your ass, and you strapped to a table with a gag in your mouth, wonder how the hell your ended up there. When what you wanted was a firm spanking and a shag.

I think the media is in part a bit responsible for this, there is a lot more talk and discussion about the subject of domination, and some popular TV shows have touched upon it, most recently the “Good Wife”,”CSI”, and “Bones”. So of course people googled found a few websites that cater to this and decided this is for them. Only to discover the theory is far different for the reality. I am in the business of applying a firm hand to my subs and slaves, yes they come to me for a good caning, I push their boundaries, pain thresholds, and limits, in a safe consensual environment. I am not here to traumatize some neophyte without a clue, who obtained their experiences from google! That damn search engine has a lot to answer for.

So in closing, gentlemen, from now on, ask for a mild Tie & Tease and go from there.